Basic Conversation Questions for a First Date (11-10-2009 03:15 PM)
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A good first date tip: start simple. Some of the best conversation questions are the most basic. Ask about a date’s family – siblings, parents, even pets. But don’t just ask dates how many brothers and sisters they have, ask about those siblings’ line of work, where they live, and especially about the relationship the date has with them. The best first date questions are fun, personal, and revealing. The family is an intimate part of most people’s lives, and is a great topic to start a conversation with.
Another good conversation topic is work. A lot of good conversation questions can revolve around a date’s work, because after all, it is probably what occupies a big chunk of his or her time and energy most every day, so they’ve got it on the mind. That being said, often times work is the last thing some people want to talk about on a date because they’re exhausted from it. If the conversation question hits flat, leave the topic be, but if a date is very engaged in their line of work, this can be a great conversation topic to pursue.
If work is a drag, some of the best conversation questions can center on hobbies and other interests. Starting a conversation about people's hobbies can lead into a long and fruitful conversation because it engages what they’re most interested in. Ask about a date’s hobbies, and be willing to share one’s own. This conversation topic can be especially rewarding if both parties find some overlap of interests, or even inspire interest in one another. Regardless, the topic of hobbies is a great conversation starter.
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